If you’re like me, your dogs are your favorite playmates and coziest couch snuggle buddies. That’s why you want to demonstrate your devotion this Valentine’s Day in new and meaningful ways. Here’s an A to Z list of gifts you might bestow – far beyond (but not excluding) a meaty bone or new squeaky toy.
Attention
Your dog craves your company more than you know. Turn off the TV, put down your phone, and give her the greatest gift of all – your undivided attention.
Belly Rubs
Our dogs thrive on loving touch as much as we humans do. One perennial favorite is the good old belly rub. Give her that gift – soon and often.
Consistency
Dogs look to us for direction pretty much constantly. Establish consistent verbal cues and other signals to let yours know what you want from them. Then reinforce the good behavior with praise, pets, and other positive rewards.
Daycare
If you work long hours, doggy daycare is a great way to keep Fluffy socialized and sane. Too much time home alone can result in her developing destructive habits.
Exercise
Just like people, dogs need exercise to maintain strong bodies and good overall health. For dogs with lots of energy to burn, daily jogging at your side, vigorous games of fetch, and sports like Agility can fit the bill.
Friends
Not every dog loves hanging out with others of his kind, but most avidly crave the company of the pack. Choose canine buddies that match your dog’s disposition and energy level and let the good times roll.
Games
A bored dog is prone to invent his own games – like shredding the furniture and gobbling socks. Provide lots of recreational opportunities to keep these behaviors at bay.
Healing
Changes in your dog’s energy/eating /elimination habits might signal a health challenge that should be diagnosed and treated early for best results. Visit the vet!
Instruction
Dogs see us humans as their teachers and thrive on following our lead. Attend dog training classes, watch videos, and/or hire a personal trainer. When you learn to give your dog clear and consistent instruction your relationship will begin to shine.
A Job
Some dogs are hard-wired for work and actually need jobs to keep them physically and mentally fit. Herding and hunting breeds, for instance, thrive on practicing these tasks – even in controlled environments. Seek out activities that provide a safe and appropriate outlet for your dog’s natural instincts.
Kindness
If you think being a strong leader means meting out punishment whenever Maggie makes mistakes, your relationship is sure to suffer. Be firm when necessary but base your bond on kindness day-in and day-out.
Loyalty
If there is anything we humans would do well to learn from canines, it is unwavering loyalty. Whatever comes to pass, be your dog’s steadfast companion and advocate!
Massage
Massage can help keep your dog relaxed and pain-free, whether he’s an athlete or couch potato. Online videos or a professional dog masseuse can show you how to rub Rover the right way.
Nourishment
A healthy diet based on real food is the gift that keeps on giving. Do some basic research online, consult your veterinarian for specific recommendations, then upgrade Scamp’s diet. He deserves the best!
Outdoor Adventures
For dogs, new smells are bliss-inducing nose candy. Get yours out often to explore all the great Bay Area hiking trails and parks, nose first.
Praise
Want to improve your dog’s behavior? Lavish loving words upon her when she does things right, and she is sure to stay eager to please.
Quality Time
Nothing demonstrates love more than the gift of your time. Include your dog in all you do and your bond will grow ever tighter.
Respect
Dogs are not our belongings; they are unique beings with extraordinary qualities. In thought, word, and deed, show them the respect they deserve.
Safety
Keep Fido’s first aid kit up to date and have a pet evacuation plan in place in case of earthquakes or other emergencies. Safety first!
Trust
One of the pillars of a beautiful bond with your dog is mutual trust. Once again, clear and consistent communication and positive rewards-based training are keys to a great life with your four-legged best friend.
Unconditional Recall
Does Bruno come when you call? Every time and without hesitation? A rock-solid recall can literally save your dog’s life – so consult a skilled trainer, if necessary, to lock it in.
Vacations
There are so many dog-friendly accommodations available these days, from roadside motels to luxury resorts. Why leave your furry friends behind?
Walks
Regular walks are good for both you and your dog. Make them as long as possible for Bowser’s sake and vary the route to introduce new smells.
Xtra Special Treats
Most of us offer treats to motivate our dogs and reward desired behaviors. Purchase top-of-the-line healthy tidbits – or, best of all, make some yourself – and your dog will be doubly delighted.
YES!
If the word “No!” is a frequent part of interactions with your dog, maybe it’s time for a change. Whenever possible say “Yes!” and let her experience what she loves.
Zeal
The eagerness your dog shows when you walk in the room surely lifts your spirits and makes your heart smile. Return the favor with enthusiastic petting, praise, and play.
Peggy Greenfield loves all animals and plies the literary and culinary trades in northern California.
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